That was rather random, Mad... Yeah. She's basically abusing the system to carry out a personal vendetta. Come time, she'll lose, it's just the hassle, strain, and frustration (not to mention destruction of my reputation) getting there that eats at me. It actually is a Order of Protection ex parte, better known as a restraining order. The one currently on is temporary until a hearing takes place next week where I'll be able to give my side of the story. I'm confident that when the judge hears my side and sees everything I've done to totally purge this girl from my life, he'll laugh in her face...well, maybe not that, but I'm confident he'll drop it. So technically I am currently forbidden from writing on my blog, though the cop said only in regard to "slandering her name"--she claims I slandered her name when in my blog I wrote she had been unfaithful to me, which is true. In any event, he said I could go on writing, but that any misinterpretation or misunderstanding could land me in a mess of trouble (i.e. arrest). Basically, if she says I did something, even if I didn't (just like what has already happened), they won't ask quesitons, won't try to verify it, until after I'm in cuffs and behind bars. Jeez, man, after hearing your story, Mitth, mine pales in comparison. Sorry to hear that has all happened. You ever need to talk or vent, man, know I'm here for you.