When my husband, Texas Fett (where did he come up with that name? ), informed me that y'all were bribing me by calling me fluffy and offering to take me to a 10 hour dance-a-thon I felt it was time I had my say, I mean has any of this ever worked for any of you . First off no woman in her right mind wants to be called "fluffy" when I think of fluffy I think of marshmallows, then I think fat, then I think, "are they saying I'm fat?" Not a good connection when trying to bribe someone. Next, I have two kids, watch two other kids, and work part time, the last thing I want as a bribe is to be told I have to be on my feet for 10 hours. Cute thought but not happening . Maybe a hot bubble bath, dish of chocolate (always a good bribe), cup of tea and a good book with a promised uninterupted hour to read.... Or a day of manual labor by one Texas Fett in my garden and we might start talking. But you are talking about something totally out of my comfort zone , so I think you need to try much harder at the negotiations. Sorry my husband, who keeps reading over my shoulder informed me I needed more emoticons, hopefully I didn't overdue it